I am always curious about men’s bracelet. Those that looked
like some twirled or wrapped or rolled string of leather, rattan, or hemp. The
stash could be adorned with some silver beads or any other charms to make it
look both nifty and ragged. What function does it serve besides as an
adornment? Sometimes I think maybe it would accentuate muscles around the arms
or focusing people’s eyes to the hands’ part. I bought one for an ex-boyfriend
as a birthday present. That ex was an accessories aficionado. When we were
dating he used to wear four rings in one hand. He had two. So, it was at least
eight rings. I am not kidding. Now we know why we broke up, don’t we. Less than
a week after it was official, I successfully (made him) pull those rings out into
a safe, dark place, and they had never emerged ever since (rings or kiss!). After
the rings were gone, I started to see hemp ankle bracelet that looked very
hippie and casual, like the things you got from a stranger in a backpacking
trip. You know, they would look at you, make you feel special, read through
you, and tie up their craft to your body parts and it is impossible to unwrap
it because they make it to “Fit” you. Even showers do not weary them. Scissors
do. But, who have the heart to cut an ornament given by a stranger? Neither did
that ex. He said, he would only cut it after he got married or meet the right
girl. Ha! Could you imagine how challenged I was with that term? Therefore, I
bought him the sleek bracelet to sway his mind off that ankle bracelet and
maybe I could cut it off when he was off-guards. Just kidding! Not. Anyway. Since
then I know guys (at least those I am attracted to) wear bracelets because it
tells stories, their bodies are their portable museums. Some got it in India,
some in Kalimantan. One got it from his sister. He was from a port city in
Southern Europe and clearly, sail clubs are just like the neighborhood’s skateboarding
club. I may be wrong! But, sailing was his hobby. He was going to make an
anchor tattoo on her arm while instead his sister advised him not to. She
replaced the thought of ink with literally a long black skinny leather string
with a small, silver anchor head. It was to be rolled around and hooked with
anchor head as the finishing. He showed me how it was done, unwrapped and
wrapped it again. The anchor, he said, is sometimes problematic since it could
hook into passerby’s coats or shirts accidentally. Tattoo is safer, he said. He
wore the leather on his right hand. That night I drew an anchor on his left
inner forearm and he drew a donkey on mine (another story on the donkey). Looking
at my accessories-less everyday getups, I quite appreciate guys who wear those
other than a watch. Because it opens up stories and, “hmmm nice watch!” sounds
like appreciating the price rather than the watch. Although I also like men’s watches!
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