There is nothing attractive about negativity and constant complaints. Highlighting one's sorrow for display is offensive for people since they have problems too. Problems which they hide, try to solve, or out of politeness, they won't let you affected by it. Complaining also belittles the weight of others' burden. The worst kind of complaint is if you knew that would be the consequences but you chose that path anyway. We are all trying to live here, at least in civil ways. Put your negativity and complaints into a black hole, enjoy every moment, and spread positivity.